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Ever wonder why women can brush their teeth while walking and talking on
various subjects while men generally find this very difficult to do?
Why 99 percent of all patents are registered by men?
Why stressed women talk?
Why so many husbands hate shopping?
According to Barbara and Allan Pease, science now confirms that "the way
our brains are wired and the hormones pulsing through our bodies are the
two factors that largely dictate, long before we are born, how we will
think and behave.
Our instincts are simply our genes determining how our bodies will
behave in given sets of circumstances." That's right: socialization,
politics, or upbringing aside, men and women have profound brain
differences and are intrinsically inclined to act in distinct--and
consequently frustrating--ways.
The premises behind Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps is
that all too often, these differences get in the way of fulfilling
relationships and that understanding our basic urges can lead to greater
self-awareness and improved relations between the sexes.
The Peases
spent three years researching their book--traveling the globe, talking
to experts, and studying the cutting-edge research of ethnologists,
psychologists, biologists, and neuroscientists--yet their work does not
read a bit like "hard science."
In fact, the authors go to considerable lengths to point out that their
book is intended to be funny, interesting, and easy to read; in short,
this is a book whose primary purpose is to talk about "average men and
women, that is, how most men and women behave most of the time, in most
situations, and for most of the past."
Why Men Don't Listen, therefore, deals largely in generalizations, and
this is bound to alienate some readers. "We don't beat around the bush
with suppositions or politically correct clichés," the Peases claim.
Those up for an irreverent and unapologetic take on why men and women
just can't help themselves sometimes may just decide to read on. --Svenja
Soldovieri--This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition
of this title.