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If you are in a sexless marriage and are unhappy, don't worry, it isn't unrecoverable but it is serious cause for concern. You may even be thinking that you need a divorce because of your sexless marriage, that's only natural.

But, in order to really decide what to do, some thinking needs to be done so you feel good about your decision, regardless if you stay married or not.

Being stuck in a sexless marriage can have you feeling a wide range of feelings from loneliness, listlessness, confusion, unconfident, etc.

These feelings come about for a variety of reasons and they can be overcome if you just figure out why you're in a sexless marriage.

You need to get to the root of the problem and uncover the real reasons that you and your spouse are no longer sexually active assuming of course, you once were!  

Maybe you have tried different solutions like going on a cruise in Hawaii  to bring back romance without any significant success.To get to the heart of the causes for a sexless marriage will take some time.

On the surface, you may be thinking that the cause of your sexless marriage may include one or more of the following scenarios: Sexless Marriage: "We both work too much!":

You both work extremely hard and have an hectic life like living in New York city and there just never seems to be enough time to get together, your schedules are skewed.

This is true a lot nowadays with the 'new' economy, lots of couples are married but just live together like roommates if both parties have 'time-consuming' careers.

If not managed properly, it is unfortunate but common for people in this type of lifestyle to end up in a sexless marriage.

Sexless Marriage: "You work, I stay home with the kids!": One of you works very hard with your career and one of you stays home to raise the children (child), which is equally as hard as any career!

This situation can lead to a sexless marriage in many cases because of the seemingly disparate priority base of each party.

The spouse with the career may need to work after hours, travel, or attend "post work" functions and the spouse who stays home raising the children (child) may not have any other outlet for relaxation away from the home front.

This situation can easily lead to a sexless marriage because there may be underlying feelings from both sides that contribute to an already tough situation based on personal and work related schedules.

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