You need to get to the root of the problem
and uncover the real reasons that you and your spouse are no longer
sexually active assuming of course, you once were!
Maybe you have tried different
solutions to bring back romance without any significant success.
To get to the heart of the causes for a
sexless marriage will take some time.
On the surface, you may be thinking that the
cause of your sexless marriage may include one or more of the following
scenarios: Sexless Marriage: "We both work too much!":
You both work extremely hard and have an
hectic life and there just never seems to be enough time to get
together, your schedules are skewed.
This is true a lot nowadays with the 'new'
economy, lots of couples are married but just live together like
roommates if both parties have 'time-consuming' careers.
If not managed properly, it is unfortunate
but common for people in this type of lifestyle to end up in a sexless
marriage.
Sexless
Marriage: "You work, I stay home with the kids!": One of you works
very hard with your career and one of you stays home to raise the
children (child), which is equally as hard as any career!
This situation can lead to a
sexless marriage in many cases because of the seemingly disparate
priority base of each party.
The spouse with the career may need to work
after hours, travel, or attend "post work" functions and the spouse who
stays home raising the children (child) may not have any other outlet
for relaxation away from the home front.
This situation can easily lead to a sexless
marriage because there may be underlying feelings from both sides that
contribute to an already tough situation based on personal and work
related schedules.
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