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The Art of Seduction

Seduction is a question of subtle strategy with one ultimate goal - to have sex with someone.

The desire for sex is powerful; for some it can be as powerful as the need to eat and breath.

Seduction is the road we take to achieve sexual satisfaction.

While the ultimate goal is to have sex, there are lots of smaller goals that need to be reached along the road to the sexual surrender of our chosen partner.

For some, the thrill of seduction lies in the chase rather than the conquest.

The excitement of wanting and pursuing someone can give a sense of satisfaction in itself.

For others, the electric thrill comes from knowing that another person's sexual attentions are focused on them.

Those who thoroughly enjoy the chase are generally people with plenty of self-confidence and their confidence increases the likelihood of success.

Those who are less confident usually find seduction far more difficult. How can you convince a member of the opposite sex to fancy you if you see yourself as being unattractive?

It's important that you choose the right person to seduce.

This is more a matter of instinct than anything else but most of us endeavor to make conversation, or at least some eye contact, with a potential partner who we consider to be our equal on the scale of physical appeal.

Once you've sought out your 'prey' you need to decide whether the time and/or situation is right for seduction. If the object of your passion is somebody you see on a regular basis, the time/place being wrong may very well add to the thrill.

If you're getting the right feedback, the knowledge that the other person is interested but that you can't do anything about it just yet can increase the feelings of arousal and excitement.

But how do you know that he's interested?

The best clues come from reading body language.

Non-verbal signals are far better indicators of how a person feels about you than anything they may actually say verbally.

Those with an open posture are usually more available than those who stand with their arms crossed. The eyes are the biggest give-away when it comes to seduction.

If he returns your gaze, and especially if he holds eye contact with you longer than is usually acceptable, then the chances are you're on to a winner.

Trust your instincts. You'll 'feel' whether he's interested or not.

Small gestures and tone of voice tell us a lot about how the other person feels about us.

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