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10 Clues of an Online Affair

by Bill Mitchell

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Its obvious online affairs are prevalent then today what can you do?

This epidemic is causing the breakup of countless marriages.

How do you know if your spouse is violating the marriage vows by carrying out an online affair?

Let’s look at typical indicators I personally discovered while investigating affairs.

If your marriage is in trouble these clues will help you be the judge.

Caution: These clues are not confirmation of an affair; just feasible indicators for you take into account.

1.Your spouse or partner spends excess time on-line. 

Who doesn’t use a computer today? I know a few people.

They are excellent for paying bills, staying in touch with family, friends, customers, finding street locations, & a host of other productive endeavors.

We can not live without them and shutter when a lighting storm threaten our usage.

Just look at kids & their instant messaging. They will go without dinner just to keep in touch with their circle of friends.

Try to pull them away, it’s no easy task. Does your spouse resemble your kid’s magnetism to the computer?

Discover why this need is so powerful before it’s too late.

2. Passwords, instant message “buddy lists”, internet email accounts and emails are concealed - even protected from you!

Do you find your spouse needing his “own space” at the computer?

Is there a real reluctance when you ask to know his passwords?

What’s there to hide?

These questions all have obvious answers.

The act of hiding information is deceptive by nature.

Of course, those of us who have worked in “Corporate America” understand the need to protect company secrets.

But what legitimate “family secret” are we hiding?

Listen, any time a spouse becomes secretive with you, it fulfills a direct need they demonstrate. Why?

You are like the judge, referee, or source of authority creating that “sense of accountability” over them. Furthermore, they are breaking matrimonial law if committing adultery. There is, in many courts, a price to pay!

3. Computer use after you have gone to bed, when you fall asleep or in the middle of the night.

Have you been awaken by the absence of your spouse at night & found him at the computer?

If this behavior becomes a pattern you certainly need to be concerned. While work demands a sense of commitment and loyalty, working late repeatedly after you have fallen asleep is a little odd.

4.Your partner abruptly shuts off the internet and/or computer when you approach. This is panic and unexplainable behavior. The rationalization is “when all other contingency plans fail, just shut that

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