approve of each other which allows the vulnerability necessary to be honest about their personal needs.
What should be done about reversing this destructive trend?
Pre-marital coaching would be best.
Determine if the person you are marrying meets your standards and that you are not just settling because he/she is almost what you want and you might not find anyone better.
Second best would be to stop an affair before it happens.
This could be accomplished by paying attention to your relationship and not taking anything for granted. Decreasing the number of affairs would probably make a difference in the divorce rate.
Preventative would seem to be preferable, but some people need to get hit by a board before they wake up and realize they are in jeopardy. Ideas are welcome.
What do you think are the cause of infidelity and effect ?
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Susan Sheppard is the founder of Getting What You Want, a life and relationship coaching organization created for the purpose of promoting sacred intimacy in all personal relationships : romantic, parental, sibling, friendship and business. She is the author of the book “How to Get What You Want From Your Man Anytime”, a relationship book that tells everyone in romantic relationships how to be content and have more fun, more sex and less bickering.