The Verbal Abuse is Killing you Inside.
Things are fine for awhile, but then you start sensing anxiety, frustration, and eagerness for that "change".
What happened to the faith and trust it has been broken again. We feel a huge burden on our shoulders once again. They have a nonchalant attitude. Until the next confrontation.
Mixed emotions run through your head, you feel like a prisoner the walls are caving in. Not sure, but if he does not get what it is that you really need then why do we keep pursuing it?
Sometimes all we ever want is someone to love us for who we are and we want the respect and support that our marriage deserves and needs. Maybe it is the sex, he knows how to handle your needs in bed.
Of course we all love a man who knows how to please a woman sexually. But to what degree, suffering emotional turmoil?
It is the fear of being lonely.
The low self esteem is eating you up alive when will it ever end? You are not so positive that there is light at the end of the tunnel.
You can't run and you definitely can't hide.. What to do?? I just would like to scream, but no one will hear, the Feelings of resentment , broken promises, lack of faith. Things will never get better.
Unless you really want to stay and work things out with professional help and he is willing to seek counseling. Then maybe you could get him to change his ways.
The memories will always haunt you the cruel words, disrespectfulness, broken trust. How can you ever repair that? Bad Memories. Only time will tell. You have to start repairing yourself and take that first step. You need to heal.
Most verbal abused relationships tend to appear after the 1st year of marriage. He thinks he controls you, he is the man of the house, he pays the bills, he does whatever he wants to, because he can, if you try to defy him, he might become verbally belligerent and or abusive physically, just to prove to himself that he is the one in control.
When we know for a fact that they are out of control. It is a vicious cycle..
5 Things they do when to make you feel inadequate - while destroying a good relationship .
Men who do this should have a self talk, recognize their negative behavior and the consequences. Because their actions may cause you to leave forever.