They need to eliminate stress and insecurity and the fear of not being loved.
Research shows that people who are lonely suffer from drug and alcohol and health related problems.
Women we all need nourishment and stimulation. We need to be respected, appreciated and to be spoken to kindly and gently.
When all these needs are met we grow in love and we excel in our leading a happy fulfilling life. If that doesn't occur in our lives then we will never survive.
Most women decide to stay with this abusive relationship for the sake of the children, not realizing that in the long run, it will only affect their mental well being, children do not like to see unhealthy emotional parents.
We need to provide to our kids a sanctity of love and happiness, not misery and unhappiness.
For the love of your kids, don't wait too long...They are many ways that can cause for an unhappy marriage and an unfaithful husband. We know that we said through death do us part..
Does that mean the death of your own self esteem, the death of mutual respect, the death of trust, the death of love, all of those principles that are vital to maintain that healthy marriage..
They all have diminished.. Is it not important too him to maintain a healthy marriage, or is he so consumed with his own feelings, his emotions, his life and how not perfect it is, how much effort he has to put into it to make it right.
His self centeredness and selfishness will not allow him to make this relationship of top priority.
Research studies proves that 21 million women, suffer from this vicious epidemic. While living through this brutal demeaning relationship, thinking there is no escape, but the fact is we need to take action they will never admit to their faults.
If you have children in this verbal abuse relationship and you don't seek help it will escalate to the kids. No one deserves to be mistreated. When negativity surrounds them there is nothing else to expect.
Women who are emotionally or physically abused need to realize that we need a change. Realize that your a special and unique person. LOVE yourself and gain the courage ...
Start living a more happy life. Stop thinking that you are not good enough and bring your self esteem up. Don't feel as though you are not worthy of having a loving life. Stop feeling as though it is your fault.
It is SABOTAGING your life. Get on with it. Woman I just wanted to share with you that you are not alone, if you really wish you could make things work then get professional help and make him commit, he must agree to it.
If not get yourself picked up and start living a happy life take action... You deserve the best ...
I have written this article in hope that you too will see the light, and be an inspiration for overcoming abuse. 15 years is way too long too wait ...
About the Author:
Janett Colon ..
ps... I have created a romantic gift store in hopes that when woman around the world find there true and meaningful non abusive relationship. They will experience love and romance for all eternity.