It does not matter whether you have over 25 years experience an aging one or many relationships or a novice in this zone, each one of us have our own ideas of Romance.
The definitions are as diverse as the person whose idea it is. Every relationship starts with romance, but somewhere in between life with its banalities come in the way.
Whatever your beliefs and notions may be about Romance, I have drawn up a list which according to me are the most common myths about Romance:
1. No difference between romance and sex.
Completely wrong notion. Romance can, in the least, is a precursor to sex. If a person becomes romantic, with only sex in mind, he will soon meet his Waterloo. Consider romance as a mere “mental foreplay”. It helps you to inform your loved one what your feelings are and that you have taken care to express your feelings
2. Romance has no place in a relationship.
Agreed, our work, hobbies and everything sometimes get higher priority than just romancing. But let us not forget that it is the romance in our lives, with our partner, that holds our lives together.
It is that proverbial cementing factor which keeps our balance and keep us on track – not just with the partner, but with life in general. It is truly the pivot of life.
3. You need cash to be romantic.
No way. You don’t have to flaunt your bank balance to be romantic. It’s all about making some small wishes and dainty dreams come true.
Many times, pulling up a chair, opening the door, carrying a heavy bag for your partner or just paying a compliment on how she is looking today, takes you miles ahead in a romance, which no amount of expensive gifts and dinners can achieve.
4. Romance needs extra time and more extra effort.
While I agree that some aspects of romance is indeed time consuming, but a whole lot of small and insignificant things can add a lot of romance to your relationship.
Simple acts like making that phone call at the most unexpected time, turning the lights low, putting on her favorite music as she enters the room or prancing in the kitchen while dinner is getting cooked, can enliven and rekindle romance in your lives.
5. Romance is a woman only topic.
It is a myth that women take the lead when it comes to the mater of romancing. Both men and women can jointly hunt out romance. The only difference lies is a romantic person thinks up of various small things to add that spark, whereas an unromantic person hardly has