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Attract Dream Relationship
by Arvind Devalia

Are you single?

Do you want to attract dream relationship

Everyone dreams of that ideal relationship – one that is full of love and affection.

A relationship with someone that you connect with mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually.

We all want to meet our soul mate.

So how does one find love, true love?

The key thing is to focus on creating your ideal life.

To attract & create your ideal relationship, shift your focus away from attracting a partner & wanting a relationship.

Focus instead on creating the kind of life that you truly want.

The kind of life that excites you so much that you jump out of bed every morning. 

Once you are in such a clearing, your dream partner can simply walk in and join you.

The dream relationship should be the icing on the cake that is your life, and not the end all & be all of your life.

To create your ideal life, ask your self what it is going to be about.

What do you want to do for a living and what do you contribute to the world?

Where do you want to live and how much money do you want to make?

The key to attract dream relationship is to make your self truly happy right now and also to remain happy regardless of whether you are in a relationship or not.

This is not to say that you don't go in for things like speed dating.

Just treat these as fun and social events.

The trick with making the most of these events is to focus on your best points and be proud of that.

For example, you may have a great smile and so show it off.

To make an impact with your speed dating partner, ask unusual or even outrageous questions such as – what turns you on the most about a person of the opposite sex?

This is sure to make an impression rather than the usual questions such as what do you do, and where do you come from.

Also, listen to the other person – we have two ears and one mouth – so listen at least twice as much as you talk.

Finally it is okay to be rejected when asking someone out on a date.

It is only their opinion and their choice.

And with all dating related events, have no attachment to the outcome and have fun.

Otherwise why would you even do it?

As for creating a clearing in your life for that dream partner to walk in, or that attract dream relationship, here are some tips:

1. Be complete and in peace with past relationships. Drop the baggage from the past.

Let go of hurts and resentments towards anyone from your past.

Forgive and reconcile with that ex-partner who was so mean to you.

The true test is to meet such a person from your past and to not feel any negative thoughts.

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