Ten Compelling, Bottom-Line Questions to Answer before you launch your search for the love of your life
Again, most singles are busy people. What time are you going to allot to support your search, meet and get to know new people? Remember 24 hours/day is all we have single or married!
7.What are your non-negotiable for yourself and for a potential partner?
What are habits, life style, situations that you could not live with? What are things in your life that you are not willing to give up? Most relationships break up in the first year due to the ignoring of this factor.
8.What are your negotiable for yourself and for a potential partner?
This is similar question as above but is more about your own life now. What are you willing to give up to make room for a new relationship.
9.What type of relationship will best serve you at this time?
Today, more than any other time in history, we have no real norms.
As with negotiable, take the time to think about what you are looking for. Companionship and weekend relationship, marriage, step-parenting or more children.
10.Do you have your dinner/lunch interview ready?
This might sound bit corny. However, having met a potential partner, the next step of a more serious conversation is imminent. Being prepared with the knowledge you have gathered from the last 9, as well as communication skills to listen to your “prospect", valuable time can be saved if this dinner conversation is well planned.
This list was created after my own single journey and finding the love of my life as well as coaching many single people to successfully meeting their love of their life!
About the Author:
Jennifer Wright is an Occupational Therapist and Personal Single's Coach. She has co-created single transitions for many women internationally, to find the love of their life. Reach her at www.wrightdirection.com