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The Psychology of Impotence
by Chris Morrow

 

Looking at the psychology of impotence is a little like taking a trip down the Amazon during the wet season.

It's a subject fraught with hidden currents, treacherous shallows and wide meanderings.

There is no doubt that Viagra, the little blue pill that revolutionized the treatment of impotence has had a profound effect on men who have erectile dysfunction.

But simply finding a "quick fix" for impotence doesn't overcome other problems that may have been there before treatment began. 

Overcoming impotence often gives men unrealistic expectations about their ability to immediately cure their emotional problems as well as their physical ones.

The Psychology of Impotence Sadly it seems that for a large number of men, their ability to get an erection and have sex is viewed as an integral part of their masculinity and potency. 

So it's no wonder that the onset of impotence, even when triggeredby an underlying physical condition, can produce psychological problems that further impact on the impotence.

Performance anxiety is a very real issue for most men at one time or another.

The fear of not being able to perform adequately, dissatisfaction with penis size, and self-consciousness about body appearance can all lead to the very thing that most men wish to avoid - failure to get an erection.

Cure impotence and sexual performance anxiety

So, when this anxiety is coupled with the knowledge there may have been an occasional episode of impotence in the past, or when erectile dysfunction has been in existence for a period of time, this anxiety is multiplied. 

From a strictly physiological viewpoint, anxiety can effectively prevent a man from becoming aroused and getting and maintaining an erection. 

And performance anxiety isn't the only issue men have to contend with.

The highest risk category for the onset of impotence is the so-called "baby-boomers" - men born in the period from 1946 to 1964. 

Most of these men are in their peak performance years in terms of their job, status, family and financial success. And all these factors lead to an increase in stress levels and anxiety - one more reason for impotence to occur.

Taking a pill may temporarily overcome the impotence, but relieving the self-doubt and mental stress, which may have been brooding for any number of years, is harder to alleviate.

The ability to regain quality of life by restoring sexual function is viewed by some men as a near miracle and by others with fear and trepidation.

It's important to honestly assess how you feel now and compare it to how you felt before the impotence treatment began.

Easier said than done, but unless the negative feelings tied to the impotence can be viewed objectively,

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