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Men's Success in the Online Dating

Keep the message short and to the point!

A person reading numerous Emails will probably NOT read or finish reading the long biographical or philosophical essay about your life. One or two paragraphs should be optimal for this purpose.

Do not BULK Email!

If you send several identical messages in response to several ads, it will not only be ineffective, but may also turn that person off. A lady wants to feel special and your response to her should reflect this.

Although time is understandably short, you should still take the time to pick out a certain distinguishing quality about the person and respond accordingly. You may still keep a good chunk such "your description" part of your Email the same.

Come across HONEST and GOOD-NATURED.

Nothing worse than a tacky, rude, or an obviously exaggerated statement in your Email. Being complimentary to the poster's ad and her ideas / intentions as well as stating why can be VERY effective in bringing you closer to that person and therefore increasing your chances for a response.

Respond to many ads.

Do not be OVERLY aggressive, but try to meet as many people as possible. Meeting more people offers you the opportunity to make the best choice. It will also allow you to always have someone to email, chat, and hang out with.

If at first you don't succeed, try again!

If there is a person who you contacted and are truly interested in, but did not get a response on the first try you should send them another message. There may a legitimate reason that prevented that person from responding to you.

However, do not hustle the person with numerous Emails or instant messages - there is no greater TURN-OFF especially for the ladies than this type of online harassment! This is a fact and has been the subject of many online studies.

DO NOT give up!

Be persistent in your search and try many different online services, groups, message boards, clubs, whatever you may choose to not only increase your chances of meeting your mate, but to provide you with enough practice and confidence in getting there! Hard work and persistence never fail.

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