They are easily distracted by noise. They adore being talked softly in the ear. The quality of the voice of their partner can be a true turn on or a definitive turn off. An Auditory will look on the side when they think because they have to hear the voice in their head.
Auditory will tell you ‘’how things sound’’. Auditory will have the latest stereo system in town, they prefer going to concerts, they like to talk on the phone and they have a special talent for music.
A Feeling person reacts on intuitions and their guts. They are willing to sacrifice elegance for comfort (no high heels for women and tight collar shirt for men).
They want to feel great at all times and in every situation. They look for partners who are great at sharing feelings. They are perceived as people with a great heart.
Women are easily seduced by Feeling Men because they have the ability to express their sensitive side and are great listeners, so common to women’s needs.
Feeling people like to touch, to kiss and they greatly need a constant physical expression from their partner. Feeling people look down when they think because they need to get the ‘’impression’’.
Feeling people will tell you ‘’how things felt’’. They like to relax lye in the sun, work out, massage, drink, and dance, and eat great foods. They will most likely do risky activities because of the rush of extreme sensations. They are trill seekers.
If you are with a partner that has the same communication style as yours, enjoy yourselves. If you have two different communication styles, don’t conclude that you are not made for one another and that it’s maybe time to see a counselor (a therapist or…. a lawyer!).
This article will give you more tools to help communication at the maximum and get a deeper connection with your mate or future mate.
How can we capture the heart of a Visual, an Auditory or a Feeling person?
With Visuals, you need to use visual terms; from my ‘’perspective’’, I can ‘’see’’ what you mean, the more I ‘’look’’ into this, the more it ‘’seems’’ nice, I ‘’observed’’ how wonderful you are with kids, etc…
Visual need to be stimulated with what they see; always have a neat house, with harmonized colors, be dressed elegantly in every situation (wearing jeans can be elegant with a nice matching color and style top).
For lovemaking, always have a little light, or candle, because it turns them on to see their partner enjoying lovemaking. Look in the eyes, show them that you care for them and that you are attentive. Visuals like to make scenarios.
They usually don’t rush in the lovemaking because they need to admire first. They need to ‘’see’’ it. Also, they don’t communicate in words their feelings.