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At some point in our lives we have all talked about finding a “good man” – looking for Mr. Right.
If we’ve never talked about finding a “good man” or finding “Mr. Right” we know plenty of women who have talked about finding a “good man” or finding “Mr. Right”.
But who is “Mr. Right”?
What does he look like?
Where do you find him?
And exactly what are we talking about when we talk about a “Good Man”?
What is a “Good Man”?
What does he look like? Walk like? Talk like?
I can tell you that it’s not about WHAT he LOOKS LIKE. Mr. Right may not look like Brad Pitt, Mel Gibson, Tom Cruise, The Rock, Ricky Martin, Denzel Washington, Shamar Moore, Avery Brooks or Billy Dee Williams.
It’s not about what kind of car he DRIVES.
He may not drive a Bentley, or a Porsche or a Jaguar or a Mercedes.
He may not even have any wheels.
He may take the bus or the subway to get from Point A to Point B.
It’s not about how big his bank account is. It’s not about how much money he makes every week. It’s not about the type of clothes he wears.
It’s not about whether or not he is on the corporate fast track at some Fortune 500 company or whether he has a corner office on the 56th floor in a glass and concrete ivory tower otherwise known as a skyscraper.
You won’t find him hanging out at the mall or on the corner with his boys and shouting out to you for the entire world to hear, “Hey baby, What’s happening? You sure look good!” as you pass by.
He wants to get to know you first. As a matter of fact when a MR. RIGHT/MR.
GOOD MAN walks into your life, you probably won’t even recognize him. Make him fall deeply in love with this
MR. RIGHT/MR. GOOD MAN won’t be hollering loud and drawing a crowd when he wants to let you know that he’s interested in you.
MR. RIGHT/MR. GOOD MAN will quietly and unceremoniously walk up to you and say “Hello”.
He’ll be polite and treat you with respect. He’ll treat you like a person and not like a piece of meat.
He may start up a conversation. He may pay you a compliment. He may compliment you on your outfit or the way you are wearing your hair on a particular day.
He is interested in your mind. He is interested in how you think, what you think and what makes you think the way that you do.
He’ll ask questions.
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