Every one is honest as long as doesn’t get the opportunity. Most prefer to follow social norms and do not act, who act are either careless or their necessity or desire overcomes the society norms.
It does not mean those who follow social norms are honest, they too have the feelings and desires which they repress in order to avoid facing social consequences, indicates they are emotionally prepared for relation but social boundaries do not permit.
It is emotional suicide in order to avoid physical suicide; each of us has a desire for fulfilment of emotional and physical needs because our body and brain cells require them for smooth functioning.
In absence of emotional and physical attachment, our entity forces us to understand the necessity, so when meet suitable person the brain cells react to inform us, act as this is a need in order to avoid miserable and dull life.
We act by direction of the entity and the brain in order to fulfil its requirements depending on the character.
Both social accountability and the entity clash in our mind, which ever overpowers directs us to act. For women; in most cases social accountability comes forward and she murders own desires. She indulges only in case of awful relation or vengeance or too strong attraction conquers her.
For the cheated partner it is infidelity as long as cheater is living and sharing family affairs. It is natural that no one would wish partner to share sexual emotions and relation with someone else, it hurts and gives pain to the heart as both are assets of each other.
Relation breaks as no one would prefer to stay together with dishonest companion unless one is so grateful to forgive and forget the dishonesty. As long as there are wife and husband and marriage; extra marital relation will in illegal – deceitful and will be called “INFIDELITY”.
As for both wife and husband, it is an issue of dependability, security, emotion of togetherness as wife and husband, sharing and sacrificinglife to maintain family and status pop and mom. Women are more concerned as family is their security, togetherness and life.
All dreams of family and its future collapses in case of any one switches to extra marital relation. This becomes dishonesty married family. Each of find the reasons as why did she/he go for it was he/she not happy.
If not, why? What can I or children do for it? I feel some as:
In order to avoid partner diverting mind invite and motivate his/her deep involvement in family activities.
Revitalize the faded attraction of home and self this is magnet prevents from thinking others. Lifeless homes are not homes.
Thinking home and kids before getting attracted to strong characters will restrict to limitations.
Emotional involvement of the partner towards family by reminding responsibilities and emotional touch up.
Psychological treatment of weak character of sexually addicted partner.
Respect the identity and integrity of a partner.
Wrong and cruel atmosphere of the home is instigation to find better.
Many women in the offices are influenced by bosses for sexual favour. This uncommon behaviour is common in many offices. Under these circumstances husband is best to advise to tackle the situation, risking job is no matter if husband prefers to handle legally with such people.
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