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How to Successfully Program Your Man

by Susan Dunn

Wouldn't it be wonderful if you could program your man as easily as purchasing your next Netflix movie?

Well it isn't as absurd as it sounds.

Every day we program each other subconsciously.

There are reasons why we like certain people and dislike others.

Many time this has nothing to do with logic and everything to do with anchors.

Anchors create automatic responses.

For example, many people smell chocolate chip cookies or warm apple pie and think of warm happy afternoons spent in their mother's kitchen.

Just the scent creates good feelings.

Another example on the flip side may be the sound of sirens.

Many of us get nervous at just hearing them in the vicinity when we are driving, and begin nervously looking for police officers ready to bust us for speeding.

We all have anchors.

The good news is that while most people live their life on autopilot, you can learn how to create anchors in yourself and in the men that you want to date.

Here is one quick example:

The next time that you are out on a date or approached by a man that you find attractive:

1) smile at him and crack a joke

2) As soon as he starts smiling and laughing reach over and squeeze his arm lightly.

That simple touch combined by the good feelings your joke inspired has just become his anchor.

3) Now whenever you see him and want to inspire that same feeling lightly squeeze his arm in the same place. He will automatically feel good about you again.

Try it for yourself!

You will be amazed by the effect.

Now, you need to learn on how to get a guy to chase you after you guys have connected and felt the warth of it.

About the Author:
 ©Susan Dunn, The EQ Coach, http://www.susandunn.cc helps women find the relationship they dream of and is the author of “Midlife Dating Survival Manual for Women.” Coaching Internet courses, discrete investigative service, ebooks.

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