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5 Secrets To Attract Men Like Ants To Grape Jelly
by Lisa Daily
Want to quintuple your odds of winning in the dating game?
We surveyed a variety of top experts and learned five unbelievably effective secrets to make guys go gaga.
Work it, dream girl:
1. BE THE CENTER OF ATTENTION
Want to be the one who gets noticed? Stand in the center of the room. According to Dr. Albert Mehrabian, the author of several books and nationally-known expert in the field of spatial psychology, where you are in a room (and what you're doing) has a lot to do with your ability to attract the opposite sex.
Where should you be for the highest impact and the greatest number of interested cuties?
Smack-dab in the center of the room, standing up and moving around a bit. Make him fall deeply in love with this
(But don't pace a track on the carpet for goodness sake...) If you're in a bar or nightclub, the best place to be is at one of the corners on the bar.
Not only will you meet more people, but, according to Mehrabian, bartenders tend to gravitate toward the corners as well.
Interesting conversation AND a full drink?
You'll feel like you've died and gone to dating heaven.
The worst place to be seen?
Hanging out near the wall or sitting at a table. That hot stranger approaching your table and asking "may I join you" only happens in the movies.
2. THE COLOR LURE
What color can you wear to compel the opposite sex to approach you?
According to Color Consultant Leatrice Eiseman, Director of the Pantone Color Institute and author of Colors For Your Every Mood, says women should wear a pink-peach to make themselves most approachable.
The color is "very flattering to most skin tones, it gives you healthy glow, " and according to Eiseman, projects "a little vulnerability which brings out something protective in men."
Want to wear a color that weeds out guys who can't handle strong women?
Try deep red, burgundy or plum. Men who aren't attracted to strong women will steer clear. Of all the colors, red is the most sensual. But, wear red with caution.
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